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Marriage

by The Dangerous Method

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1.
Repetition 03:16
I wake up And I always have a hard time getting you to wake up The wedding wreath still hangs over our bed Though the leaves have all turned brown I walk across the house to the other show 'Cause the knob in ours is broken I let the water run over my head 'Til I feel like I could drown Now it's time for us to leave for work And we've hardly said a word I don't have much to say to you anyway But I'm still dying to be heard You text me And ask me what we need from the store And I can't think of anything This must be all that we deserve And now we can't decide what to eat for dinner Even though the fridge is full of options I can't seem to get you to tell me What it is that you'd prefer So you spend all night staring at your phone While I stare at the TV It's a war between my narcissism and your anxiety I fall asleep And you always have a hard time falling asleep
2.
Sex and Cake 03:19
I am a constant victim of my appetites They chase me around all day And keep me up at night They come between me and God Blur the line between wrong and right It's almost as if it's somehow out of spite But I go on from day to day Trying not to lead myself astray And I remind myself that I was made this way And I'm ok I got married at 22 That was probably a mistake But I wanted God's approval Like I wanted sex and cake These days I live in fear That everything I have might break Look at me now, God I'm wide awake But I go on from day to day Trying to remember what not to say And I remind myself it's always been this way And it'll be ok
3.
Dead End Job 03:13
I spent the last twelve months in a dead end job Taking home my hard earned pay I spent the last twelve months doing grunt work for the man Maybe some day soon I'll finally get a raise I spent the last three years in a dead end job Where I have to deal with assholes all the time I spent the last three years loading lumber onto trucks Where's this so-called ladder I'm supposed to climb? As a younger man I dreamed of fame and fortune Of a freer life somewhere out on the road But the longer I spend here in this crummy little town The less likely it becomes that I'll ever go I spent the last thirty years with a hateful bitch Who treats me pretty much like shit I spent the last thirty years getting pushed around and whipped And today's the day I've had enough of it
4.
Mice 03:46
So you've built yourself a home With a place for all your things And you're satisfied And it all feels so secure The walls are strong and thick So you stay inside But the mice crawl into your cupboard And they gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you You'd better start setting traps for them Or they'll multiply You thought you'd filled in every hole That could possibly be filled And your work was done So you kick back and relax And you take things as they come Now you're having fun But the mice crawl into your cupboard And they gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you You'd better start setting traps for them Or they'll multiply Now it all feels so useless You cannot fill the void You're afraid if you try to This home could be destroyed So you fantasize another life that you could have pursued And you keep an eye on the walls so they don't come unglued The mice crawl into your cupboard And they gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you You'd better start setting traps for them Or they'll multiply The mice crawl into your cupboard And they gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you Gnaw at you
5.
Marriage 03:33
We've been together For so long I can't remember What the point of all this was originally I still love you And I know you still love me too And I used to think that'd be enough, but it might not be These days you seem angry and cold And I can't seem to reach you at all Meanwhile I'm a self centered control freak With a lack of empathy But I'm gonna stay right here Even if things don't get better They probably wont get better But we'll wait and see And this'll go on and on and on Until one of us is dead That's what we signed up for And I'll hold you to it As long as you hold me 'Cause that's what marriage means No one gets to leave Maybe we need some counseling At this point I'll try anything 'Cause I've grown so accustomed To having you next to me while I sleep And if we split, our parents They'd be so disappointed And we've have to choose which of our mutual friends Each one of us would get to keep Well now this is gonna take a lot of work And I can't tell you that it isn't gonna hurt And we'll never get back the feeling That we had at age nineteen But I'm gonna stay right here Even if things don't get better They probably wont get better But we'll wait and see And this'll go on and on and on Until one of us is dead That's what we signed up for And I'll hold you to it As long as you hold me 'Cause that's what marriage means No one gets to leave And it doesn't make much sense But if I had the chance To do it all again I probably wouldn't change a thing I'm gonna stay right here Even if things don't get better I hope they get better
6.
Taylor 03:39
This song is not a Diet Coke on a sunny afternoon In a well-appointed hotel suite This song is a cluttered basement at 3 AM After half a bottle of Jameson Followed by six cups of coffee And she's asleep in the next room But you don't want to wake her 'Cause you're afraid for her to hear What you're writing about her So you're barely touching the strings And you're trying hard not to break things In this house, there are no perfect nights In this house, there are no perfect nights It's been so long since anything's been right In this house, there are no perfect nights Wouldn't it be nice if you could still believe the lies That all those pop songs told you as a teen But there are no guarantees that everything will be alright No matter how long you keep dancing And you think "Romeo and Juliet, Those suckers got off easy I wonder how pure their love would've been By their seventh anniversary?" Now the devil's at your door So you write a few lines more In this house, there are no perfect nights In this house, there are no perfect nights And I haven't felt twenty-two since Two Thousand and Nine In this house, there are no perfect nights You'll get about an hour of sleep And in the morning You will dress up like a model employee And you'll try not to think so much about your dreams Or what they mean In this house, there are no perfect nights In this house, there are no perfect nights Now there's nothing left to do but turn off all the lights In this house, there are no perfect nights But maybe everything will be alright
7.
Gun in my left hand Knife in my right I'm standing over My bleeding wife Blood on my hands Mud in my eye I swear to god, I won't be waiting here to die Ask me why I killed her I'll tell you I don't know Wanted it to last So I did it slow Watched the life Drain from her face And wondered what I saw in her in the first place Now I'll go down to the river Where the water's green Tie some rocks to her body And wash my hands clean I'll let myself shed a single tear And when they look for me tomorrow I won't be here On a dusty road To who knows where Guess I'll know When I get there Feel no remorse Got no regrets I've already started to forget
8.
Wake 05:40
You made me a promise And I made one to you But things haven't worked out like we were hoping God knows I've tried But you're unsatisfied Your heart is broken wide open I know your heart can't be tamed And I ain't trying to I just hope I'm still the place your heart is leading you You can do what you want And I can do what I want But all I want is all of you And you don't know what you want And I don't know what you want So I don't know what else to do And I don't know how much more I can take Or how much of this has been fake But I want you here when I wake So now is the time For us to decide Whether what we've got is worth holding onto It would be a shame If it were all in vain After the pain and the loss that we've gone through But if is the end, I guess that's how it has to be Please don't just stay because you're scared of hurting me You can do what you want And I can do what I want But all I want is all of you And you don't know what you want And I don't know what you want So I don't know what else to do And I don't know how much more I can take Or how much of this has been fake But I want you here when I wake
9.
Remember when we went through Todd's haunted house With all our friends that cold October night You flipped out and ripped my favorite jacket From holding onto it so tight You pleaded with me to go back to the beginning But that's the one thing we were not allowed to do So I said shut your eyes and hold me tighter The only way out is through So keep on moving forward Don't be paralyzed by fear We'll come out on the other side of this together Nothing will hurt you while I'm here The day the test results came back The news they gave us couldn't have been worse So I closed the blinds and curled into a ball While I listened to A Blessing and a Curse And I wished that we could go back to the beginning But no shooting star could make that wish come true You took my hand and we stepped forward into the darkness And you said the only way out is through So keep on moving forward Don't be paralyzed by fear We'll come out on the other side of this together Everything will hurt, but I'll be here The only way out is through...
10.
You're a bridesmaid and I'm a groomsman in this wedding And we've been married for four years already And things aren't going quite as well as we'd been led to expect We've lost a certain amount of passion and affection Our intimacy level is moving in the wrong direction No matter what we try we don't seem to be able to connect And I feel so far from you But I don't know what to do I look at the bride and groom and see their warm and tender glow Once upon a time we had a love like that. Where did it go? Where did it go? Tonight they'll drink champagne, they'll dance, they'll make love 'til dawn While we go home again and fight about what show to turn on It seems our moment is a long time gone The pastor drones on reading First Corinthians 13 And we're supposed to contemplate just what love really means But you and I have already been doing that for several weeks I remember back when we were younger and less jaded When our ideals about romance weren't so dry and cracked and faded We examined one another and we couldn't find a thing to critique But time can change your point of view 'Til you lose the things you've held onto I hate my tuxedo, you can't stand that frilly dress They're a plain representation of a feeling that amounts to less and less I guess this is what it feels like to be blessed Now our friends are making promises and they're exchanging rings But vows are only words and golden bands are only shiny pretty things In the end what consolation do they bring? Now I can see the tears in your eyes As we hear "I pronounce you man and wife. Now you may kiss the bride." The music starts You take my arm And we walk side by side Hold onto hope Don't let me go
11.
Fused 02:43
Hey why don't we try something new I'll try to be me And you can try to be you Now I realize what a difficult task it is to complete Walking around all day Supporting the weight of two people On only one pair of feet I didn't realize what I was doing to us Everybody told us that's what love was We fused our lives, and I ate you whole I guess I thought I needed control But you lost yourself, so I lost you And I ended up losing myself too But I promise that all of that is through I think I'm ready to disagree So don't be afraid Tell me all about what a jerk I can be We can't go on The way things have been It's been like a mad scientist movie Where you're locked in my cellar and I'm sewed to your skin And that's not a good idea I don't know why I thought it would be I screwed up Baby, please forgive me We fused our lives, and I ate you whole I guess I thought I needed control But you lost yourself, so I lost you And I ended up losing myself too But I promise that all of that is through I love it when you hold me But I don't need you to hold me I need to learn to hold onto myself Hey why don't we try something new You can stop being me And I'll stop being you
12.
Sticks 07:26
He rows across the river in a stolen boat She's in his blood like poison, there's no antidote He says "I'm not sure what I'm doing here I just couldn't bear to stay In that dark house in the middle of the woods And I'd do anything to bring you back to life I would cut a path through hell to lead you home So stand behind me, hear my voice Come back and be my wife This place is empty without you And I can't hold myself together on my own" Leaves fall heavy on the roof, the ground grows thick with thorns As he slowly trudges up the path and through the door And he wonders if she's following but he doesn't dare to look He says aloud "I'm scared you'll disappear for good And I'd do anything to bring you back to life I would cut a path through hell to lead you home So stand behind me, hear my voice Come back and be my wife This place is empty without you And I can't hold myself together on my own" Weeks pass He leaves the lights turned off Now there's dust on every surface And the walls are cracked He reaches for her in the dark And he feels nothing But decay and despair So he whispers Into the cool night air: "This place was built to fall apart So let's get out Let's get out I wanna burn it down This place was built to fall apart So let's get out Let's get out"
13.
A Fire 02:55
We started a fire With just a few sticks We found on the ground We gradually added more wood And it started to grow Which made us so proud So we invited everyone To come and see what we'd made Oh what a glorious sight The neighborhood stared open-mouthed At our marvelous tower of heat and light The smoke was visible for miles around And it was beautiful We barely noticed When our house burned down We bought a new house In a different town With a bigger backyard Where we found a circle of bricks That someone had built Which caught us off guard But we felt inspired So we started a fire

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The second full-length album by The Dangerous Method.

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released December 3, 2021

The Dangerous Method:

Joseph Jared: vocals, guitars
Emily Jared: bass
John D. Miller: drums, trumpet

With:
Kels Cordaré: strings
Nathan Deese: alto saxophone
Alex Stevenson: tenor saxophone
Kristen Ford: vocals
Jesse Robinson: vocals

String and Horn arrangements written by Joseph Jared

Produced by Jesse Robinson and The Dangerous Method
Engineered by Rick Franklin
Mixed by Josh Sullivan
Mastered by Mikey Allred
Art Design by Emily Jared

All songs written by Joseph Jared

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The Dangerous Method is an indie alt-rock power trio based out of Nashville, Tennessee.

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